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Sex, Love and Poly-Behavioral Addiction
Proposing a New Diagnosis and Theory for Patients with Multiple Addictions
By James Slobodzien, Psy.D.,
CSAC
Experts in the field of addictions
are presently purporting that
between 3 and 6 percent of
the world's population (193
to 386 million people) are
presently affected by a sexual
dependency or compulsivity
(Carnes, 2005). Sexual dependency
is a diagnosable and treatable
disease, which today is generally,
regarded in about the same
way that alcoholism and drug
addiction (chemical dependency)
was regarded 40 years ago.
Even so, there still exists
a wide range of understandable
misunderstandings about compulsive
sexual acting out, created
out of ignorance about the
nature of sexual addiction,
and supported and perpetuated
by the multibillion dollar
pornography industry.
Sexual Dependency - is a global
term that covers a wide range
of maladaptive and self-defeating
behavior patterns and relationships
such as:
1. Love Addiction –
a disorder in which individuals
repeatedly become involved
in enmeshed, intense, codependent
relationships, even when those
relationships or partners
are destructive;
2. Romance Addiction - a disorder
in which individuals become
obsessed with the intrigue
and the pursuit of romance
and thrive on the thrill of
the chase, but find it impossible
to sustain a committed, intimate
relationship with another
person;
3. Sexual Anorexia –
a disorder in which individuals
become dominated and obsessed
with the emotional, physical,
and mental task of avoiding
sex; and
4. Sex Addiction – a
disorder in which individuals
become obsessed with sexually-related,
compulsive self-defeating
maladaptive behavior.
But can one really be addicted
to love as the popular 80's
song proclaims? In a recent
research study, (Aron, A.
2005) published in the June
issue of the Journal of Neurophysiology,
researchers used functional
MRI to watch the real-time
brain activity of 17 college
students (10 women, seven
men), all of whom were in
the early weeks or months
of new love. These researchers
concluded that, love may vie
for the same real estate in
the brain as drug addiction.
"Early love, rooted as it
is in the caudate nucleus,
is all about addiction." "It
is a drug addiction." "It's
certainly got some of the
main characteristics of drug
addiction -- as with drugs,
once you fall in love you
need that person more and
more, so much so that, after
a while, you have to marry
them. There are other things,
too -- real dependence, personality
changes, withdrawal symptoms."
"And just like the need for
cocaine or heroin, love can
make people do crazy, sometimes
dangerous things." According
to Aron (2005), the findings
help explain instances where
people fall in love with people
they aren't even sexually
attracted to; or why others
can feel equally strong, sudden
emotion for a newborn child
or even God.
So does this mean that all
people who are newly in love
have an addiction? Are all
men who look at pornography
addicted? Are all women who
read romance novels addicted?
Are all people who avoid sex
considered sexual anorexics?
No, no, no, and no. Then how
can we differentiate between
addiction and healthy relationships?
Like other forms of addictive
diseases and lifestyle disorders
such as chemical dependency,
pathological gambling, eating
disorders, and religious addiction
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Sexual dependency is characterized
by an addictive cycle of:
1. Obsession or preoccupation;
2. Ritualization;
3. Compulsive behaviors;
4. Loss of control and despair;
and
5. Shame and guilt that perpetuates
a maladaptive belief system
of impaired thinking and unmanageability.
Typically, sexual addictive
patterns are considered pathological
problems when issues concerning
sexual behaviors become the
focus of life, causing feelings
of shame, guilt, and embarrassment
with related symptoms of depression
and anxiety that cause significant
maladaptive social and/ or
occupational impairment in
functioning. Addicts don't
use sex for affection or recreation,
but for the management of
anxiety and/ or emotional
pain.
We must consider that some
people develop dependencies
on certain life-functioning
activities such as sex that
can be just as life threatening
as drug addiction and just
as socially and psychologically
damaging as alcoholism.
Sexual addiction takes many
forms with various levels
of severity to include:
1. Controversial behaviors
(obsessions with pornography,
and sex with strangers to
engaging in cyber-sex);
2. Unacceptable behaviors
(exhibitionism, voyeurism,
indecent phone calls); and
3. Profound Sex offender behaviors
(rape, incest, and child molestation).
Though solitary forms of this
addiction may not be overtly
risky, they can be part of
a pattern of distorted thinking
and identity conflict that
can escalate to involve harming
the self and others. An example
of a Sexual Disorder (NOS)
or Not Otherwise Specified
in the DSM-IV-TR, (2000) includes:
distress about a pattern of
repeated sexual relationships
involving a succession of
lovers who are experienced
by an individual only as things
to be used. (It should be
noted that the Diagnostic
and Statistical Manual of
Mental Disorders has never
used the word "addiction"
to describe any of its disorders).
The defining elements of this
kind of addiction are its
secrecy and escalating nature,
often resulting in diminished
judgment and self-control
(Carnes, 1994).
Brief History of Sex Addiction
In 1976, a suburban hospital
administrator asked Dr. Patrick
Carnes to start an experimental
program for chemically dependent
families. The theoretical
constructs of the program
originated in general systems
theory, especially as it applied
to families and the 12-steps
of Alcoholics Anonymous. One
of the many factors which
stood out from a family perspective
was that the addictive compulsivity
had many forms other than
alcohol and drug abuse including
overeating, gambling, shoplifting,
and sexuality. Members of
groups like Overeaters Anonymous
and Gamblers Anonymous had
already pioneered in applying
the 12-steps to other addictions
so the Family Renewal Center
extended its programming based
on the 12-steps, to sexual
addiction.
In 1983, Dr. Patrick Carnes
formally introduced the concept
of sexual addiction to the
world in a text entitled "Out
of the Shadows." Since then
the field of sexual addiction
and compulsive sexual behavior
has developed dramatically.
Terms such as addiction, compulsivity,
hyper-sexuality, and "Don
Juanism," all have been used
to describe what generically
could be called "out of control
sexual behavior." Regardless
of its name, clinicians from
all fields agree that a syndrome
exists in which individuals
have a sense that they have
lost control over their sexual
behavior.
According to the Society for
the Advancement of Sexual
Health (SASH), sexual addiction
is a persistent and escalating
pattern or patterns of sexual
behaviors acted out despite
increasingly negative consequences
to self or others. The fundamental
nature of all addiction is
the addicts' experience of
helplessness and powerlessness
over an obsessive-compulsive
behavior, resulting in their
lives becoming unmanageable.
The addict may be out of control.
They may experience extreme
emotional pain and shame.
They may repeatedly fail to
control their behavior. They
may suffer one or more of
the following consequences
of an unmanageable lifestyle:
a deterioration of some or
all supportive relationships;
difficulties with work, financial
troubles; and physical, mental,
and/ or emotional exhaustion
which sometimes leads to psychiatric
problems and hospitalization.
Addictions tend to arise from
the same backgrounds: families
with co-dependency including
multiple addictions; lack
of effective parenting; and
other forms of physical, emotional
and sexual trauma in childhood.
The Society for the Advancement
of Sexual Health (SASH, 2005)
report that the symptoms of
sexual compulsivity often
accompany other addictive
behaviors:
Alcohol and Drug Addiction
– Alcohol and drugs
alter libido, enhancing it
early in drug addiction and
inhibiting it later. There
is a pattern in cocaine addiction
of selling sexual favors for
cocaine. As the cost of drug
addiction increases, the drug
addict usually can't afford
the drug from ordinary job
income, and must resort to
(either/or) stealing, drug
dealing or prostitution to
support their habit. Alcohol
and many drugs cause blackouts
or amnesia during the drug
using experience, and if sex
is coupled with that drug
using experience then the
details of the sexual experience
may not be remembered.
Food Addiction - Sexual anorexia
or pathological self-denial
of healthy sex is a frequent
accompaniment of overeating
and anorexia nervosa.
Pathological Gambling - The
lifestyle of the gambler often
includes hyper-sexuality,
where both compulsions feed
the false sense of self-esteem
of the addict.
Religious Addiction - Compulsive
religiosity sometimes accompanies
sexual addiction as the sex
addict is seeking religion
to lessen guilt and shame.
The beginnings of compulsive
religiosity may signal the
onset of a period of sexual
anorexia.
Multiple Addictions
Since it is impossible to
expect treatment for one addiction
to be beneficial when other
addictions co-exist, the initial
therapeutic intervention for
any addiction needs to include
an assessment for other addictions.
National surveys revealed
that a very high correlation
exists between sexual addiction
and other substance abuse
and behavioral addictions.
Sexual addicts who have reported
experiencing multiple addictions
include sexual addiction and:
Chemical dependency (42%)
Eating disorder (38%)
Compulsive working (28%)
Compulsive spending (26%)
Compulsive gambling (5%)
Poor Prognosis
We have come to realize today
more than any other time in
history that the treatment
of lifestyle diseases and
addictions are often a difficult
and frustrating task for all
concerned. Repeated failures
abound with all of the addictions,
even with utilizing the most
effective treatment strategies.
But why do 47% of patients
treated in private addiction
treatment programs (for example)
relapse within the first year
following treatment (Gorski,
T., 2001)? Have addiction
specialists become conditioned
to accept failure as the norm?
There are many reasons for
this poor prognosis. Some
would proclaim that addictions
are psychosomatically- induced
and maintained in a semi-balanced
force field of driving and
restraining multidimensional
forces. Others would say that
failures are due simply to
a lack of self-motivation
or will power. Most would
agree that lifestyle behavioral
addictions are serious health
risks that deserve our attention,
but could it possibly be that
patients with multiple addictions
are being under diagnosed
(with a single dependence)
simply due to a lack of diagnostic
tools and resources that are
incapable of resolving the
complexity of assessing and
treating a patient with multiple
addictions?
Diagnostic Delineation
Thus far, the DSM-IV-TR has
not delineated a diagnosis
for the complexity of multiple
behavioral and substance addictions.
It has reserved the Poly-substance
Dependence diagnosis for a
person who is repeatedly using
at least three groups of substances
during the same 12-month period,
but the criteria for this
diagnosis do not involve any
behavioral addiction symptoms.
In the Psychological Factors
Affecting Medical Condition's
section (DSM-IV-TR, 2000);
maladaptive health behaviors
(e.g., unsafe sexual practices,
excessive alcohol, drug use,
and over eating, etc.) may
be listed on Axis I, only
if they are significantly
affecting the course of treatment
of a medical or mental condition.
Since successful treatment
outcomes are dependent on
thorough assessments, accurate
diagnoses, and comprehensive
individualized treatment planning,
it is no wonder that repeated
rehabilitation failures and
low success rates are the
norm instead of the exception
in the addictions field, when
the latest DSM-IV-TR does
not even include a diagnosis
for multiple addictive behavioral
disorders. Treatment clinics
need to have a treatment planning
system and referral network
that is equipped to thoroughly
assess multiple addictive
and mental health disorders
and related treatment needs
and comprehensively provide
education/ awareness, prevention
strategy groups, and/ or specific
addictions treatment services
for individuals diagnosed
with multiple addictions.
Written treatment goals and
objectives should be specified
for each separate addiction
and dimension of an individuals'
life, and the desired performance
outcome or completion criteria
should be specifically stated,
behaviorally based (a visible
activity), and measurable.
New Proposed Diagnosis
To assist in resolving the
limited DSM-IV-TRs' diagnostic
capability, a multidimensional
diagnosis of "Poly-behavioral
Addiction," is proposed for
more accurate diagnosis leading
to more effective treatment
planning. This diagnosis encompasses
the broadest category of addictive
disorders that would include
an individual manifesting
a combination of substance
abuse addictions, and other
obsessively-compulsive behavioral
addictive behavioral patterns
to pathological gambling,
religion, and/ or sex / pornography,
etc.). Behavioral addictions
are just as damaging - psychologically
and socially as alcohol and
drug abuse. They are comparative
to other life-style diseases
such as diabetes, hypertension,
and heart disease in their
behavioral manifestations,
their etiologies, and their
resistance to treatments.
They are progressive disorders
that involve obsessive thinking
and compulsive behaviors.
They are also characterized
by a preoccupation with a
continuous or periodic loss
of control, and continuous
irrational behavior in spite
of adverse consequences.
Poly-behavioral addiction
would be described as a state
of periodic or chronic physical,
mental, emotional, cultural,
sexual and/ or spiritual/
religious intoxication. These
various types of intoxication
are produced by repeated obsessive
thoughts and compulsive practices
involved in pathological relationships
to any mood-altering substance,
person, organization, belief
system, and/ or activity.
The individual has an overpowering
desire, need or compulsion
with the presence of a tendency
to intensify their adherence
to these practices, and evidence
of phenomena of tolerance,
abstinence and withdrawal,
in which there is always physical
and/ or psychic dependence
on the effects of this pathological
relationship. In addition,
there is a 12 - month period
in which an individual is
pathologically involved with
three or more behavioral and/
or substance use addictions
simultaneously, but the criteria
are not met for dependence
for any one addiction in particular
(Slobodzien, J., 2005). In
essence, Poly-behavioral addiction
is the synergistically integrated
chronic dependence on multiple
physiologically addictive
substances and behaviors (e.g.,
using/ abusing substances
- nicotine, alcohol, & drugs,
and/or acting impulsively
or obsessively compulsive
in regards to gambling, food
binging, sex, and/ or religion,
etc.) simultaneously.
Conclusion
Considering the wide range
of sexual behaviors in our
world today, one should always
take into account an individual's
ethnic, cultural, religious,
and social background prior
to making any clinical judgments,
and it would be wise to not
over-pathologize in this area
of Sexual Dependency. However,
since successful treatment
outcomes are dependent on
thorough assessments, accurate
diagnoses, and comprehensive
individualized treatment planning
- poly-behavioral addiction
needs to be identified to
effectively treat the complexity
of multiple behavioral and
substance addictions.
Since chronic lifestyle diseases
and disorders such as diabetes,
hypertension, alcoholism,
drug and behavioral addictions
cannot be cured, but only
managed - how should we effectively
manage poly-behavioral addiction?
The Addiction Recovery Measurement
System (ARMS) is proposed
utilizing a multidimensional
integrative assessment, treatment
planning, treatment progress,
and treatment outcome measurement
tracking system that facilitates
rapid and accurate recognition
and evaluation of an individual's
comprehensive life-functioning
progress dimensions. The ARMS
hypothesis purports that there
is a multidimensional synergistically
negative resistance that individual's
develop to any one form of
treatment to a single dimension
of their lives, because the
effects of an individual's
addiction have dynamically
interacted multi-dimensionally.
Having the primary focus on
one dimension is insufficient.
Traditionally, addiction treatment
programs have failed to accommodate
for the multidimensional synergistically
negative effects of an individual
having multiple addictions,
(e.g. nicotine, alcohol, and
obesity, etc.). Behavioral
addictions interact negatively
with each other and with strategies
to improve overall functioning.
They tend to encourage the
use of tobacco, alcohol and
other drugs, help increase
violence, decrease functional
capacity, and promote social
isolation. Most treatment
theories today involve assessing
other dimensions to identify
dual diagnosis or co-morbidity
diagnoses, or to assess contributing
factors that may play a role
in the individual's primary
addiction. The ARMS' theory
proclaims that a multidimensional
treatment plan must be devised
addressing the possible multiple
addictions identified for
each one of an individual's
life dimensions in addition
to developing specific goals
and objectives for each dimension.
Partnerships and coordination
among service providers, government
departments, and community
organizations in providing
addiction treatment programs
are a necessity in addressing
the multi-task solution to
poly-behavioral addiction.
I encourage you to support
the addiction programs in
America, and hope that the
(ARMS) resources can assist
you to personally fight the
War on poly-behavioral addiction.
For more info see:
Poly-Behavioral Addiction
and the Addictions Recovery
Measurement System (ARMS)
By James Slobodzien, Psy.D.
CSAC at:
http://www.geocities.com/drslbdzn/Behavioral_Addictions.html
National Council on Sexual
Addiction & Compulsivity
P.O. Box 725544
Atlanta, GA 31139
(770) 541-9912
http://www.ncsac.org
Sexual Addiction Resources
http://www.sexhelp.com
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About the author:
James Slobodzien, Psy.D. CSAC,
is a Hawaii licensed psychologist
and certified substance abuse
counselor who earned his doctorate
in Clinical Psychology. The
National Registry of Health
Service Providers in Psychology
credentials Dr. Slobodzien.
He has over 20-years of mental
health experience primarily
working in the fields of alcohol/
substance abuse and behavioral
addictions in medical, correctional,
and judicial settings. He
is an adjunct professor of
Psychology and also maintains
a private practice as a mental
health consultant.
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