It's a common question many
people have. Am I really an
addict? (. or How do I know
if someone I care about is
addicted?) What's the difference
between an alcoholic and drug
addict? Is there a difference
between a cocaine . heroin
. or even a marijuana addict?
A lot of people today drink
alcohol and a fair number
use drugs. (Does that make
them all alcoholics or drug
addicts?) Of course not!
So how do you know for sure?
.
The difference between someone
who is addicted and someone
who simply uses or abuses
a particular substance is
the "compulsion to use" (whatever
the substance may be)
And what do I mean by "compulsion
to use"? .
Simply that most people who
for example drink, know when
to stop or have the power
to say, "enough is enough."
(not always, but most of the
time)
Whereas the alcoholic or drug
addict can't say no or simply
walk away like most people
can. As an addict or alcoholic
- once you start it becomes
almost impossible to stop
- to control your using because
the compulsion to use or drink
is just too strong.
When you become addicted you
almost lose the power to choose.
That might sound flimsy or
wish-washy, but it's not and
I'll tell you why in the next
part of this course .
The other big question . is
what's the difference between
being an alcoholic or drug
addict, whatever your drug
of choice may be?
If you look at it carefully
. not a lot actually. Yes
your drug (or drink) of choice
may be different . create
a different form of high (or
feeling), but the end result
is still pretty much the same,
i.e. "addiction," which leads
to "destruction" – or
call it what you will - (mentally,
physically, spiritually and
emotionally) . and which can
ultimately lead to the heaviest
price that anyone can pay
. death.
So as a heroin addict that
process might happen fairly
quickly, whereas for the alcoholic
it may happen far more gradually
over a number of years, yet
the consequences (no matter
what the substance), of addiction
will be very similar.
That's why it's a good idea
to start thinking in terms
of "addict" rather than "alcoholic,"
"drug addict," "junkie" or
whatever you've been thinking
of or using to describe such
a person up to now. (Addicts
like to think of themselves
as "special and different"
and that their problems are
unique – but in actual
fact they are no different
to any other "addict"). I
know I've been there .
Why do you think most major
rehab facilities treat alcoholism,
drug addiction and even things
like gambling and sex addiction
pretty much the same way?
Addicts even refer to alcohol
as a drug because they know
that even though for most
people it can be enjoyed in
moderation - for them it can't
– and that's why it's
viewed in the same light (even
though it may legal and regarded
as socially acceptable.)
This article is from Part
1 of a Free 10 Part e-Course
that discusses: "The Truth
behind Addiction," "How the
worst of Addictions be Overcome"
and "What needs to be done
to Stay Clean and Sober Forever."
The full e-Course can be accessed
(plus a Bonus Free Report
how 3 people - an addict,
a parent and lover of an addict
– Survived Addiction
)at: http://www.addiction-uncovered.com/index.html
About The Author
Carl-Peter Lehmann is a recovering
alcoholic and drug addict
who has spent the last 10
years researching and trying
to understand addiction and
what it takes to create a
successfull and fulfilling
life without the need for
drugs and alcohol.
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